Date: 2018-02-13 07:36
And no, most of the women I m attracted to are not in the most attractive tier at all. Except to me. I really like someone at the moment who, conventionally, isn t in the top tier of attractiveness but to me she s pretty amazing.
Most women aren t looking at a guy and obsessing nearly as much over these elements that you are. Further isn t it possible you just have a particular taste in men?
You might still be at an advantage with a woman who is openly only looking for a one night stand but the stylish guy who radiates confidence, humor and genuine interest is going to be at a distinct advantage with anyone else.
Didn t want naturally gregarious guys to think they d have to go all stoic! It s more a practice your conversation game so you don t verbally trample other people sort of thing.
I see the reactions people give me on a daily basis. People here do not. Why therefore do people who have no idea what goes on in my life have the right to automatically guess that I m wrong in the assumptions I make about people who interact with me. I ve seen how they react. People here haven t. People here know nothing about how people react or interact with me yet they pass judgement based on their own beliefs and experiences of how people interact and react. Which is apparently fine for them but not for me. Fine for them to have a bias but not for me.
One of the most interesting things about being attractive is that it 8767 s the little things that make up the difference things that are easily overlooked, but powerful when utilized properly. Here are five subtle attributes you can use to make yourself much more attractive instantly.
I ve done my best to acknowledge and appreciate other people s experiences and thank you for such a courtesy if you and others have shown it me. It s not just my current social group that act in such a way sometimes. It s most of the people I ve ever known. Of course it s not a universal experience of everyone.
Have you ever considered coming at this problem from the end of things and spending some time dismantling what attracts you to others?
No, I haven t. If I wanted to discount someone s experience, I d simply tell them I thought what they were saying was wrong. If I told you something you see all the time in your everyday life was not happening/not true, you d not count my words as being worth more than your own real life experience. That doesn t mean you wouldn t value or appreciate my contribution. Personal experiences are always going to be more powerful than other people s words.
Tim, on the question of how to build confidence, I would highly recommend mastering something anything in order to build confidence. I understand the need to expose yourself to tough situations but that is exactly what mastering a skill requires. Whether it is piano, foosball, pinball, tae kwon do, etc., really doesn 8767 t matter. Just pick something and become really good at it master it. Then you will always know that, whether you start from the beginning, you have the ability to finish on top.