Date: 2018-03-11 20:44
Such a man may tell you that he is working through his grieving process and that he is trying to learn to love someone again. “Trying” to love you is not a phrase you want to hear. It is reminiscent of a kid who is trying to like broccoli.
ON THE VERY FIRST DATE THAT I HAD AFTER ‘RUBY’ DIED (see post #7), my date ‘Alice’ proclaimed, “…most of the single men I know are just happy to remain single.” WHOA NELLY! WAS THAT PROPHETIC OR WHAT?! And now I wonder... I don’t know if there is a correlation of that seemingly prophetic statement with the age of men, or their widowed condition, or of the length of their singleness.
There will also be judgment for our being part of a Widowed & Dating community. I’ve seen it time and time again: members worried about being judged by family, friends, in-laws and fellow church congregants on Facebook because of the group’s name. Members have gotten messages from loved ones saying they can’t believe they are part of such a group. “Dating already?” they’ll inquire. Maybe we are, maybe we aren’t. However, we do reserve the right to do so if we want to, without judgement from you.
By vocalizing that desire and commitment with her, it’ll accomplish two things: first it should earn her respect for you. Secondly, the two of you will become a team working together to honor that commitment.
I have been dating a widower for a year and 6/7.. we get along very well, enjoy travel, golf, friends. His wife was a very famous author, she passed 9 years ago, and because of this he is involved in dealing with the publishing situations, which don 8767 t bother me..and will always be involved due to royalties. he is a very kind and thoughtful person. I 8767 ve met his sister, his friends, but not his son, grandkids ( who are both autistic) or his daughter in law. I we spend limited time at his home..more time at mine. At times I feel as if he still 8775 lives 8776 with her, and just dating me. I would love some advice.
More recently, I’m finding that my personality is transforming. Depending on the situation or depending on the temperament of the person with whom I am interacting, I can be downright arrogant. I can be ‘type A’, demanding and argumentative. Please realize that I’m only admitting this to you, a faithful & private reader of my blog. I’d never admit it to a woman that I’m dating. I’d only show her my congenial side.
And now to get serious... In my last post (#88), I promised that I would offer suggestions of how you could “control that out-of-control attraction to your date’s body, so you can continue to date them without compromising your beliefs and morality.” So, here we go. I have not looked at anyone else’s research on this topic, so these suggestions are solely based on my ‘findings’. (OK, OK, they’re based on my mistakes!)
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In an interview with HuffPost, Polo said he was touched by the response to the post and shared more about his love story with Michelle: The couple dated for a year in high school but like most high-school couples, they broke up and started their separate lives.
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